Domestic violence is often the most affected by children. When a father and mother have to divorce, the child is forced to choose a side station. After her mother was beaten by her father, a little girl wrote the words to encourage her, which made her nose sour.
A mother in Chongqing, China came home from get off work because she found out that her husband did not take good care of her children, and she had a fight, but her husband actually went against each other violently. The daughter beside her witnessed her mother being abused by her father. After her father left, she immediately rushed forward and hugged her mother.
{9 The next day, she left a letter for her mother, and she wrote: "Mom, if you divorced your father, I will go with you. If you can't rest assured (brother), I can go with my father. Mom just wants to go, but if you don't want to go, don't force yourself."The little girl is mature and sensible. Even if she wants to be with her mother, she will still consider her mother's mood and worry that her mother cannot raise two children at once, so she decides to sacrifice herself, so that her two-year-old brother will follow her mother and encourage her to pursue the life she wants.
According to reports from Chinese media, after the mother got home from get off work at one o'clock in the morning, she saw her husband having fun again and was not sleeping with the child. After the conflict broke out, she did not expect that her husband would pinch her neck with her hands and push back, causing the woman to hit the wall and her back to fall to the ground, and the center of gravity fell to the ground. As she fell to the ground, her husband kept pointing at her and shouting loudly.
This thunderous video was posted on social media by my mother. The day after the conflict broke out, after the mother got off work, she saw the words left by her daughter, which were also made public. My mother said with great pain: "At this moment, I just hate that I am not capable and have no ability to take my two siblings away. If I had enough money, I would definitely not be in pain because I chose who to give up. My heart really hurts."
Many netizens looked at the little girl's paper and felt very reluctant, because the little girl's words showed her precocious maturity in the environment of domestic violence. A child who is only 9 years old knows his mother's misfortune and helplessness. Netizens also suggested that this father's domestic violence should be a common practice, otherwise, the little girl would not write papers to her mother to save her life she wanted. Girls should have been under pressure for a long time.
For this violent mother, she may have poor physical and mental health due to violence, which will affect her work, or because of her limited economic ability, she cannot meet her and her children's life care needs. She also mentioned that if she had the ability, she would not give up any child, and she would not be able to respond to her children's psychological dependence needs. Very tolerant, this little girl even plays the role of taking care of her mother in life.
How many parents are violent in marriage? Whether children witness, hear, or know afterwards, they are suffering from adult errors. When divorce is a difficult road, sometimes professionals, such as lawyers, doctors, and social workers, are needed to accompany the victims to face the children.