[The key points of this article] A netizen complained that his family often asked him how much he paid and asked for 30,000 yuan in filial piety fees per month. He felt that it was too much, so he suppressed the fee for filial piety fees and entrusted his salary, but his family still asked about his salary and even blackmailed him, which made him very upset. However, when he revealed that his current living place was provided by his family for 8 years, two bedrooms and two bedrooms, many netizens turned to criticizing his complaints, believing that the 30,000 filial piety fee was not too much. --by ChatGPT
was asked to pay 30,000 yuan in filial piety fees per month. What should I do? Will you tell your family about your monthly salary after work? A netizen said that the family leader loves to ask how much salary he earns, and then asked for 30,000 yuan a month for filial piety. He thought it was too much, so he never said anything about salary and also reduced the filial piety fee. However, his family still likes to ask about salary. Otherwise, he would have blackmailed him and asked everyone, "What should I do when I encounter this?" {9999} {9999}{9999}{9999}{9999}{9999}{9999}A netizen complained on the "Dcard Technology Board" that "the family likes salary very much", saying that he is currently working in a certain equipment business, and his annual salary after the funding is about 1.5-1.6 million, and his income is quite good. He said that when he got his salary, the family manager asked how much he would give to his family every month? Later, the direct opening required a monthly payment of 30,000 yuan, saying that the money was stored first.
The original PO said that it is not unbearable to pay 30,000 yuan a month, but I really think that the boss needs too much. I would rather leave some cash on my head and make some investments, so I took the right way to pay for the salary, which also lowered the monthly filial piety fee, and controlled the total to include insurance premiums of 200,000 yuan a year. But even if my salary is low, my family still loves to ask how much salary is. If they don’t get the answer, they say “I’m in vain” and other words, which makes him feel uncomfortable. They ask everyone, “What should I do?”
The post was exposed, and many people agreed with “I also have to pay for my salary”. Some people also suggested that “I have lost my job directly and have to switch to small companies, I can only give you less”, “Don’t pay, they can’t do anything about it”, “I don’t pay, I’ll be able to pay for it if I give it to you”, “I used to pay it all, but I’ll be empty afterwards and I won’t save it at all.”
I learned that the residence is provided by my home Netizens expressed sympathy for the original PO, and some people suggested adopting a compromise method, "If you no longer eat the resources at home, you can set a fixed monthly transfer of 6,000 yuan, and reduce contact with your home to …" At this time, the original PO revealed that the place you are currently living is provided by your home, "Near Taipei Station, 8 years old, three bedrooms and two bathrooms in the elevator building." , The truth was revealed, netizens closed their eyes in one second, and the comments turned, "It's great to live like this, is it a lot of excuses for 30,000 a month?", "I was a little sympathetic, but when I saw it, I thought 30,000 is really good," "Why don't you take you out, and then rent out the house; there's not much more, right?", "Some people go out to live, and they laugh to death." If you think the filial piety is too high, how should you negotiate with your boss? If the family manager requires too high filial piety fees and wants to reduce filial piety fees, you can try the following 5 methods so that both of them can achieve a common understanding of filial piety fees under the conditions of mutual acceptance!1. Communication solutions: confess your thoughts and difficulties with your family, and discuss solutions with them, which can improve each other's understanding and relationship.
2. Other aspects of assistance: If you cannot give the financial support you want to your family, you can suggest other ways to help them, such as taking care of your family affairs at your home or taking care of your elderly at home.
3. Give irregular filial piety fees: converting filial piety fees regularly into irregular ways can not only reduce your burdens, but also make your family realize that filial piety is not only financial support, but also includes other forms of help and support.
4. Consider giving gifts: If you do not want to give a fixed filial piety fee every month, you can consider giving gifts together on holidays or special venues instead of filial piety fees, such as birthdays or celebrations for family important days.
5. Establishing Budget and Financial Plan: If you haven't built your own Budget and Financial Plan yet, this is a great way to start reducing your filial piety fees. By managing your own finances, you can ensure that you have enough funds to support your and your family’s needs.