With the gradual opening of social awareness, the sexual awareness of giving birth to boys and girls is no longer as irreplaceable as before, and many people still believe that "only by giving birth to boys can we inherit the family line." Recently, a mother said that when her parents-in-law learned that she had a daughter after she was six months pregnant, she was humiliating and ruining her, and kept hurting her in words, which made her come to an end and asked for divorce. Domineeringly said, "I have a daughter, I am proud!"
The mother said that she felt very difficult to see an article on the "Revelation Commune" of the face club. This article is a father said that his wife's first child is a daughter, and he hopes that he can have a son and inherit the family line during the second child. Originally, the ultrasonic judgment was a boy at 14 weeks, but he didn't expect that he would become a girl at 30 weeks of childbirth. The father was moved, "The men and women are the same, but they still have to give birth to a third child, but economic ability is not allowed to give birth to a third child. How can we complete the task of inheriting the family line?…"
The mother said that she was actually a victim of "being a boy and a young woman". Because her in-laws had a very serious punishment for having a son, when she was pregnant, her in-laws heard that the daughter was in her stomach, and immediately changed her attitude and kept attacking her with words, which made the mother feel very wronged. She said that she was so hard during pregnancy that she could not get care from her family and was humiliated by words, which made her decide to divorce directly.
This mother is very domineering. She not only mentioned divorce directly, but even decided that the child would be given birth to her. "The child is born with my surname, and the supervisor is also obsessed with me. The man has no qualifications or power to see!" At the same time, she also felt that some of her old ideas still flow into modern society. "Many mothers cannot come out to seek children everywhere. In fact, it is good to have a boy or a girl. Don't have such thoughts anymore, it's painful! There is nothing wrong with having a daughter. I am proud of my daughter!"
As the post was posted, it immediately attracted many netizens to respond. Some netizens expressed affectionately, "I was also a victim, and I was said to have no blessings for having a son in my stomach", "In fact, it is a blessing to have a child. Seeing that the birth is a infertile clinic next to the birth, I felt that I cherished the gift God gave me very much." Some people also pointed out that "there is nothing to do with a boy or a girl, it depends on the sperm of the man", "No matter what the gender is, the key is that the one who gave birth is important."
How should the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be maintained?
When talking about "relationship", you will understand that this matter is definitely not a person's responsibility. If you hope that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live peacefully, both parties must have wisdom and know how to communicate with each other. Maybe if the daughter-in-law takes a step back today, it will reduce the chance of conflict with her mother-in-law; or if the mother-in-law takes a step back today, the daughter-in-law will feel that she is being treated the same, but the key point is that both parties must be able to change willingly.
When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, they will inevitably have conflicts due to differences in life habits and thoughts. At this time, the role of the husband has become a very important slimmer. Instead of saying the other person’s bad words between each other, they should talk about the other person’s good words, so that the wife can be happy and relieve the mother, and also give the two parties a coordination at important moments, so that the triangular relationship between husband and wife and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be better.