If the family of the other half and his partner are pet madmen, how should we face it? A netizen posted on "Decard": Because her boyfriend's dog wants to break up. The article mentioned that when a netizen went to her boyfriend's house for the first time, her boyfriend's mother asked her to say hello to Marces, who was raised at home, and she had to introduce herself first; her boyfriend's mother even let the dog bark at the netizen, and she didn't say a word to stop her. Later, she found that the dog and the man at her boyfriend's house used the same batch of tableware, and there were dog hairs on the food, which made this netizen even more collapse.
A netizen replied in this article: "I don't know, this family is really possessed!", "The question is breaking up. It's obvious that you can't accept such an environment. Don't wait until you get married and post a message to invite your husband's family.", "You can treat your dog as a family member, but it doesn't mean you can't live a life." A netizen teased: "I think you will be in the future. If there is a part of the wedding, then the dog should also sit in the seat and wait for you to serve tea for it. "Does my boyfriend's family really treat it as a guest speaker?!" Some netizens also raised doubts: "Marce will not shed hair! So it is impossible for a situation like a hairy person to fly", "My cousin raised three Marces and their family was still very clean. There is a situation of hair loss! ”
{999 9}More netizens said this: "This is not a dog's problem, it is a family problem!", "When you stay in after marriage, you will find that the dog is a human in their house, and your daughter-in-law will be regarded as a dog", "By his mother's attitude You may not be a bride after marriage, so don’t marry, otherwise you will really run away! ”
Four things you should think clearly before marriage. Four things you should think clearly before marriage. Don’t wait until after marriage. Before marriage, it is their own affairs, but after marriage, there are more things that need to be considered when two people want to be together. In June this year (2022), the Social Lab Social Laboratory organized four things to think clearly before marriage through the "OpView Social Reputation Database", namely:1. Are the ideas of planning after marriage consistent: including whether to have children after marriage and how many to have? Where to live after marriage? Future planning of work needs to be considered. If you don’t make a good assessment and get upset after getting married, many conflicts will occur. It is recommended that you need to evaluate together before marriage, explain the matter clearly, and if necessary, you can ask for professional pre-marriage consultation.
2. The economic situation of both parties: Before getting married, you must understand the other party’s financial situation. Some people only realize that the other party has a debt after marriage, and their lives are hard, which lays the fire of divorce. It is recommended that the two parties who are preparing to get married must find time to explain their financial situation to facilitate marriage management.
3. Is the life habits of both parties the same: Before marriage, both parties belong to different families and different life habits, but after marriage, they need to live together, so they need to confirm whether they can tolerate the life habits of each other. It is recommended that you live together first before you decide whether to enter the ceremony.
4. Consider the family members of the original family with whom they are: Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families. Regardless of whether you have to live with your parents after marriage, it is very important to observe the parents of both parties in advance. It is recommended to contact the other party’s parents more before marriage, understand the value and living conditions of the other party’s parents, including the situation of their relationship with their parents, and then evaluate whether they have entered the next stage of their life.
Marriage is an important stage in life, and it is also important to find a suitable partner who can go far. If you can make more evaluations before marriage, you can reduce post-marriage friction and make marriage a continuation of love, not a tomb.
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